Day in the Life 13: Kids in the Kitchen
When I was young I spent a lot of time in the kitchen. At some point my mom got me a Betty Crocker Cook Book for Kids and some other weird kid’s cook books (I tried to find them, believe me. One of them had humpty Dumpty on the cover and had recipes for “Purple Cows” and cucumber sandwiches, the other had a child’s hand reaching down to all kinds of awesome cookies, I also had the official Winnie the Pooh cookbook and several others that I didn’t use so often.)
I made a lot of messes and wasted plenty of ingredients but my mom taught me the basics and kind of just let me go in the kitchen–as long as I cleaned up I was allowed to play with food. It is how I learned and I learned a lot. When I was older I would often make desserts and when we needed to take food somewhere I usually whipped it up.
My kids are 6, 8, and 10. I have spent plenty of time in the kitchen with them teaching them to read recipes and measure. All three know how to use the stove and the older two are capable of using the oven. All three love to help in the kitchen.
Lately my oldest has been kitchen obsessed. Our rule is that she is allowed to bake or cook as long as she makes sure the kitchen is clean before AND after. (I don’t allow cooking in the kitchen unless it is clean and the dirty dishes all int he dishwasher.) She is finally to the point where I don’t have to be in the kitchen with her. I am letting her make mistakes (like not mixing the ingredients right and misreading the recipe–it is how I learned and it is how I intend the kids to learn.) Yesterday she decided to make pie crust for pumpkin pie–she can’t eat most of the pumpkin pie ingredients and she didn’t ask me what I substitute so I let her go.
She used Stevia with pumpkin and used way too much Stevia so the filling was pretty much inedible. However, the crust was decent though not mixed well enough. It was definitely edible. 🙂
Today she has decided to make peanut butter cookies. I am staying out of the kitchen.
After yesterdays mistakes she learned to ask more questions before proceeding and to reread the recipe. She is also teaching her little brother and sister to measure, repeating many of the fine points I have taught her over the years. Teaching another is one of the best ways I know to learn something yourself.
If she succeeds with these this will be the first time I have not been involved in the process other to take pictures and answer questions. It will be a real success–especially as she already did all the dishes and cleaned the kitchen unasked so that she could bake, and has already cleaned as she has gone along, instead of leaving a mess for later.
The best part is–since her snack foods are expensive and the ingredients are much less so letting her make her own snacks, even with the mistakes is MUCH cheaper than buying ready made ones. (And reading recipes is a great way for Rachel, my dyslexic child who struggles with comprehension to work on her reading skills.)
Update: The cookies are AWESOME! She did a great job!
Todays doodle to come later–I am intending to work from the pictures I took of them working in the kitchen since they were moving too much for me to doodle while they worked.
That’s a great illustration on how it is so great to let your kids do the things they are capable of.
You’ve got it all over me on this one…I’ve got to learn to let them make messes in the kitchen…I know I made horrendous ones and my Mom never made me clean it up (mostly because since she worked nights, she slept all day and wasn’t there to enforce)….but I agree it is the best way to be confident in the kitchen…
When they were younger I stayed with them and had them help. Rachel had to prove she was able to clean up before and after before she was allowed to do it alone, and the moment she forgets to clean up is the moment she loses the priviledge.
Looks like you all had alot of fun! Great photos! Thanks for sharing!
I’ve read this twice now. You are MUCH more patient in the kitchen than I am. I’ll let the girls mess around in other areas, but not the kitchen … it’s a sanity thing, really 😉
Hey, when we come to visit, perhaps Rachel can train my girls to clean that well, too!!!
Wow, what a great post! Most of the great cooks I read about had mothers or aunties or grandmas who let them cook and encouraged creativity in the kitchen. More than patience, it takes consistent discipline – the rules about starting and ending with a clean kitchen are great rules, but they take Mom enforcing them every single time! That’s what I’m working on! One of my girls loves to create dishes (of sometimes terrible combinations) – it’s an artistic gift, and I’m working hard to make time and space for her to practice her art. 🙂